As much as we want to avoid them, the questions will always come. The question about where babies come from can be scary if you don’t know how to respond. Kids are inquisitive and won’t stop asking questions until they get an answer that satisfies them but that doesn’t mean you have to sit there sweating over the appropriate response.
Where Babies Come From
Tell The Truth
Use age appropriate language to tell your toddler where babies come from. You can even talk about sex because a four-year-old isn’t going to be weird about it. As long as you are calm and comfortable with your answers, your child will be too. You can even explain to your child that it is something grown-ups do like drink coffee and drive cars.
Read A Book
There is plenty of reading material out there that is age appropriate and saves you from having to explain everything. Age-appropriate is relative, however, so depending on how you raise your child, these books may be reserved for older children. Still, if you are having trouble finding the right answers, maybe a book is the way to go. Just like there are books for potty training, there are books for where babies come from. Pick one that will look appealing to your child.
Keep It Simple
Sometimes all your toddler needs is to know that daddy planted a seed in mommy and a baby came. Maybe the stork came or the baby came from a cabbage patch. Every child is different and how we raise our children is different so it’s really up to you as parents to decide what is best for your toddlers. If you want to use the technical terms like umbilical cord then go ahead. All your child wants if for you to give them an answer. As they get older they will understand more.
There are no right answers to how to explain where babies come from. Sit down with your child when they ask, take out a book or just talk with them. If it’s something they’re not ready to talk about in great detail chances are your child will just lose interest and walk away. This isn’t something that needs to be stressed about. Just be honest with your children.